Thursday, November 18, 2010

We're having lots of fun these days!



Thanks to Meme, we have some more great pictures of our little Miss Mya! She's 3 months old, and I absolutely can't believe it. I can't believe that this little girl has only been here for 3 months...it seems as though she's always been part of this family. And I can't believe it's already been 3 months!! It's crazy how time flies, and my tiny peanut is getting older, and slightly bigger by the minute! If you've seen her lately, you'll understand - she is bigger than she used to be, but she is still so small! At three months, we're still struggling to fit into most 0-3 months clothes, and the majority of her clothes are still newborn size! She's so dainty! But is definitely feisty at the same time!

Cayden has really been the greatest big brother. He always needs to know where Mya is and what she's doing. He is the first to let me know if Mya is smiling or crying. He loves to get right down to her level to "play" with her, talks to her in his best baby voice, then yells to me "Mama! Mya smile to me!" I love those words. I hope that these two will be forever close. I hope Cayden finds a good playmate and secret-keeper in Mya, and I hope Mya will know Cayden as a strong, protective big brother and best friend as they grow together.
This little one might be small in size, but she is big in attitude! She is so sassy already, and definitely is beginning to have a personality all her own...and so very different than Cayden. She doesn't like to sit still in one place very long, she's very fidgety, and when she's mad...she lets us know it! This girly knows two types of voices - laughing, coo-ing and bubble blowing is the first...and full-out screaming that little head of hers off is the other! We're lucky that we mostly hear the first! It's when she's tired or hungry that the screams emerge, and there's usually a quick fix to that!
Here she is...Miss Personality!

I love how bright-eyed and curious she already is at 3 months. She loves to lay on her back, not so much on her tummy; she loves to be swaddled up tight and typically falls asleep within minutes when she is; she holds her head up like a champ and loves to pull herself up to standing (fully supported on our laps!). She's strong little one, and loves to know just what's going on at all times!
From smiley to serious in the blink of an eye...but still so darn cute!
She's the most peaceful little sleeper. She is sleeping well through the night, and we've even had nights that she's slept soundly for over 10 hours!! Growing is such hard work! :-)
When she wakes...it's playtime! She's ready to go!
She and Cayden have some pretty serious conversations sometimes!
And how 'bout this big guy?! He is amazing me these days with his outstanding vocabulary. He is super smart and surprises me with new words and phrases every single day. You tell this boy something one time, and he stores it somewhere in that big head of his, then pulls it back out when we least expect it. I love to watch him learn every day, and to know that he's gonna grow up to be one smart cookie! Here he is with his Toys R Us Christmas magazine. He got a hold of it when it came in the mail, and he pulls it out literally every day and just sits on the floor and studies it. He is adorable!
I'm not gonna lie...I always hated the shows Dora and Diego. I thought why should a toddler be learning spanish from a tv show when they haven't even mastered the english vocabulary yet. But I'll now admit that Diego is Cayden's new best friend, and he has taught Cayden a TON of new things! Unlike Dora, this show isn't completely focused on the spanish...Diego is an animal rescuer...and if you know Cayden, you know he LOVES animals. Thanks to Diego, Cayden can now pick out the following animals, say their names and be the first to tell you the sounds that each makes: whale, chinchilla, scarlet macaw, sloth, alligator, fruit bat, howler monkey, coyote, maned wolf, prairie dog, river dolphin (and the list goes on!)...I mean seriously - these aren't your average cats and dogs here. We're learning some great stuff!
A few more things...a few weeks ago, we decided it was time to get rid of Cayden's Bink. Boy did he love his "dinty!" And I knew it was gonna be hard to break his addiction...but he surprised me! Recently he was using it only is his bed for nighttime and naps, so one morning he woke up and I took it in my hand and said "We don't need this Bink anymore, right?" I went on to tell him that babies like Mya need binkies but that he was a big boy now and big boys just go to sleep without them. He said "yeah. Cayden's a big boy. No dinty no more." And with that, I put it away in the drawer (didn't throw it away just yet...I didn't know what that next night would bring!) But to my surprise, bedtime that night went very smoothly without the Bink. I laid him down, and he asked for it, but I reminded him that he doesn't need it anymore. He said "Right, mama. No dinty no more." I gave him his hug and kiss and he was dreaming within minutes...without another peep about his Bink. And we haven't spoken of it again! :-) Next challenge...the POTTY!
Recently, Grandma B came to town for a visit! She was a big help with the kids for Cyle and I, watching them while we worked. Meme got a little vacation! Cayden loves playing with Grandma - she is creative and makes fun new games for him, they go exploring outside, and they read lots of books together. Here's a picture I got of them, from inside the house. I stood and watched as they played in the driveway, sorting rocks for about a half hour! It's the little things! :-)

So time continues to fly by, and my kiddos continue to grow before my eyes. I wish I could record every minute of their little lives to look back on and never forget....but we can't. So I'm hoping that my mind will do the best possible job of storing these memories for me, and reminding me often of all of the trials, successes, funny moments and everything in between that we've gone through as a family.


Thursday, October 28, 2010

October...Mya is 2 Months!!

We are nearing the end of October, and this is my last month off of work, so we've really been trying to enjoy every last day! This month has been filled with laughter, kisses, fun outings with cousins, and play time at home. My babies are growing before my eyes and changing so much with every day that passes. And they are too cute for words!
I'm about a week late, but Mya is officially 2 months old, and the time is just flying! Here are her stats as of her 2 month doctor visit:
2 Months
9 pounds, 6 ounces
22 inches

Mya is growing pretty well these days... nearing the 50% for both height and weight. She is having some trouble with reflux from time to time, and decides to projectile vomit entire feedings...but hopefully that will resolve sooner than later! It's crazy to me that she is more than 2 pounds lighter than Cayden was at this point! She's gonna be my petite, feisty little thing! These days, Mya is smiling a ton, lifting her head really well on her belly, and trying so hard to talk and tell us stories! She sleeps pretty well through the night, upstairs in her own room, waking usually only once through the night. We did a photo shoot with Meme today and here are some of the best shots!
One of those precious smiles I was talking about!
This is Mya's "Baby." She loves this little doll, smiling and coo-ing to her whenever she's in sight! Mya is a very smiley baby, and her big brother is the absolute best at making her laugh! He talks to her and tickles her and her face just lights up...and I love watching my two smiling together - I hope they always will.
I think Mya's face here reads, "Are we done yet?" She's Beautiful :-)
And while we're here, we MUST talk about Cayden. He is 27 months now, and he absolutely amazes me! He is talking in full sentences (that for the most part we can actually understand!!), and he is in the "let's repeat everything I hear" stage...Uh-Oh! Cyle and I really have to watch what we say around this little sponge, because before we know it he's walking around saying "Oh Crap." And sometimes worse! Now I don't want to offend anyone here, I'm simply writing the following so I can look back and laugh someday... When Cyle realized that Cayden wanted to be just like Daddy, and would imitate things that he said, Cyle thought it would be funny to see if Cayden would repeat something naughty. Well it only took one time of Cyle asking Cayden to say "Right on, big tits" before Cayden was answering my questions with this phrase, and even saying it to strangers AND his physical therapist!! UGH!! As hilarious as it is when he says it (I know, I'm bad), it is VERY embarrassing!! I made Cyle have a talk with Cayden about how those were bad words, and not to say it anymore, and I made Cyle vow to me never to teach him to say things like that again! He thinks it's funny, but 9 times out of 10 it's me that's with Cayden out in public when he says it, and me who has to experience the embarrassment! But I do want to put it here in my memory log, to tell Cayden about when he's 20 - I think he might get a kick out of it!
Anyway...other than talking constantly, Cayden is doing very well with therapy, has no fractures for 7 months now, and checked out well at his 2 year doctor appointment (31 pounds and 33 inches). He is getting more independent and helpful everyday, he loves to play with other kids but is absolutely content playing alone as well. He calls everyone "friend" - says "Hi friends" when we're out in public, and even beckons strangers to "Watch this, friends" when he has something to show them! He makes me smile. He can spell his name and count to 10 too!! He's gonna be a smart one! Here's a picture of my big boy with his new best friend, Diego!
So I'm back to work the 1st of November...and I just don't know what I'm going to do without these babies of mine everyday! Staying home and playing with them everyday is something I could really get used to!

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Our Happy Anniversary

On this day, October 13, in 2007 Cyle and I were married. This was absolutely one of the greatest days of my life. To me, my husband is the best of everything I've ever wanted in a man, and even some things I never even knew I wanted. We definitely came from two different worlds, but there's a reason we came together, and I truly believe that.

So much more than my partner in life, Cyle is the father to my two, perfectly amazing children. Without him , these blessings never would have been, and I'm thankful everyday that they are.
In our journey together, we have had both good days and bad, and just as we vowed to do, we've gotten through it all together. Cayden is imperfectly perfect in our eyes - we've created such a handsome, special boy, and I would never change a thing about him. And our newest little bundle, Mya, is perfect in her own way as well. I'm sure she will grow to be a lovely little peanut, with the love of two parents who adore her. All of this would never have been possible without the bond that Cyle and I have. And I'm in love. In love with three beings that absolutely make my world turn every day.

So Happy Anniversary hunny! I love you with everything I am. This last 3 years have been so special to me, and I vow to make the following years just the same!
xoxo
Ps - Happy Anniversary to my Mom and Dad as well, who married 28 years before we did. And to Grandpa and our angel, Grandma Gert, who married 28 years before my parents. What a special bond. I love you all!

Friday, October 8, 2010

A Letter to My Meme!

Hi Meme! It's me, Cayden! You're away in Italy, Mommy says, and I just wanted to tell you that we miss you! It's been hard not seeing you and playing with you for so many days! We'll have to play lots when you get home. I have some pictures of some of the things we've been doing while you've been away... I'll start with Mya first, then save the best part for last (ME!)...
Mya has been sleeping upstairs in her own bed like a big girl! Sometimes I can hear her crying at night because she wants a Ba-Ba...so Mommy feeds her and she goes right back to bed for the rest of the night! She's growing big...wait til you see!

Look Meme! Mya smiles ALL the time now! I think she's a happy girl.

Okay, that's enough of Mya...it's my turn to show you what I've been up to! Mommy and Aunt BeBe went somewhere one day, and I stayed and played with Uncle Donny, Rah-Rah and Mo! Next thing I knew, Mama came home with this Dino suit for me to play in! It has spikes and a tail and everything!! I am going to be a T-Rex for Halloween, but this isn't my real costume...you'll have to wait to see that one, but it's sooo cool! This one I like to play in every day!


And this is the best part....I've been working really hard since you left, and I can do something really special now! I even sent this to Papa to show him how smart I'm getting! Check this out!!

And there's one more thing I can do now, that you'll have to see when you get home (Mommy can't videotape me doing it and make sure I'm safe at the same time!) I'll give you a hint....What do you get when you put a big boy on a big red tricycle on the driveway?!?! Yep! Me riding ALL BY MYSELF!!! Wait til you see!

Well that's it for now! We read your blog all the time and we miss you! Keep having fun and we'll see you soon!! Love you!!

Your favorite grandboy :-)

Cayden

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

This makes me smile...

Cookies make him smile!
Those fingers! Those arms! Those CHEEKS! Yummy in every way!

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Sept. 17th -Mya's One Month!

I realize I'm a few days early with this post, but we were at Meme's today so we took our One Month pictures! I can't believe 4 weeks have passed so quickly! My little peanut is doing pretty well, and we're all adjusting to our new lives these days.

Mya Brynn
One Month
6 pounds, 15 ounces
19.75 inches

She is so different than Cayden was at this point! I think he was eating about 4 ounces every feeding...couldn't ever seem to get enough to eat! My little Mya on the other hand isn't quite so eager to eat. She has just finally hit the 2 oz feedings consistently, and on a good day might even take 3! She's so petite. She's only gained 15 ounces from her birth weight, and our goal is to be gaining about an ounce a day...so we're working on getting her a little bigger! But overall she's doing really well. It amazes us to see how much more toned her muscles are than Cayden's were at this point too. With him, we thought his little floppy limbs were normal, but knowing now that that's part of the OI diagnosis, we've really noticed that Mya is a lot more stiff and less flexible...and that is actually normal. She's so fun, sweet to cuddle with, and is really a good baby. She is waking once during the night to eat, then falls right back asleep. And we couldn't be happier!
Mya works really hard to hold her little head up! She LOVES to be on her tummy, and is already propelling herself forward with her feet like a little frog! She makes my heart smile!